Posts Tagged ‘Well-Being



11
Jul
13

Choose Wisely

I’ve learned a lot about fitness, food, workouts, etc.  The one thing that applies to all is to choose wisely.  In all aspects and remember that each facet of your fitness will flow over to the next.

If you are trying to find a coach/trainer to help you take it to the next level try digging a little.  I’ve often felt like I was being interviewed by the trainers that I talked to.  Almost as if they were trying to size up whether I was worthy of being taken on as a client.  Pfhhhtt, it’s my money, I’ll do the interviewing thank you.  Talk to people who know them, people who have trained under them, ask for references, call the references and get feedback.  If the trainer is good, they won’t hesitate to give you the information.  If they flat refuse, perhaps they are not the trainer for you.

Food is always such a hard topic to discuss because there are so many different “plans” for people to follow.  Choose wisely.  Simply put, the best foods you can eat are the foods that have been processed as little as possible.  Fresh veggies, fruits, lean meats, things that require very little effort if you learn the basics in the kitchen.  You want starches?  Choose wisely, a sweet potato or squash is a whole lot better for your body than a over-sized (eye-eyeballed) serving of pasta.  And remember, you can’t out train a bad diet.

Workouts can be just about as confusing as food.  Choose wisely.  Set yourself some measurable goals, measurable means specific things you can put a tape measure or mathematical calculation to and determine if you are progressing.

Measurable goal examples:

Reduce/increase inches: neck, shoulders, biceps, chest, waist, hips, thighs, calves.

Increase 1 rep max dead-lift to xyz.

Run 5 additional flights of stadium stairs before a x time cap.

If you struggle to go it alone, hiring a coach can be a great thing.  But don’t go into it blindly, don’t trust your outcome to someone you haven’t checked up on.  Ask around, if you are uncomfortable asking around the gyms, ask around the nutrition stores they usually know all of the local trainers.

Need a goal?  Set yourself an appointment with a professional photographer for six months from your start date.  Hold yourself accountable at the highest level.  Keep a log.  Take progress pictures every 4 weeks.

If you can go it alone,  and you feel confident in your own ability, write down your plan and follow it to the letter.  Hold yourself as accountable as you would expect a coach to hold you.  Educate yourself on nutrition, don’t blindly follow along.  What works for one doesn’t always work for another.

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07
Jul
13

Using A Journal Part 2

As I discussed in my previous post I began using a journal to record everything again after six months off from my workout journal and I really can’t say how long it’s been with the food journal.

I’ve been on again, off again with the LOSE IT app.  I like Lose It.  Another thing that requires integrity, but at least you can scan bar codes and access that app from your phone and your computer.   I’m still a WRITE IT DOWN girl.  Something about writing it down is acknowledgement for me.  It’s personal accountability and I know that when I have a trainer get involved, that will be the first thing they ask for.

So after 9 days of keeping a daily journal, as per my expectations I see things that need to be tapped back in to place.  I do very well when my meals are planned and prepared in advance.

It’s easy to sit and type about greatness.  It’s easy to sit and type about rah-rah cheering people on.  When you have to get down and dirty and spill the truth about things you could be doing better, it’s really hard.

A friend said once…  “I’m not going to tell you this is easy because when you are screwing up you’ll think there is something wrong with you, there isn’t.  It’s just hard.”

No truer words were ever spoken.

I’m sitting here typing this blog thinking of all of the not on plan foods I’ve had over the last four days.   It’s not horrible.   But it’s not great either.   I’m not trying to be perfect.  I’m trying to be better than the day before.

I’ve noticed that when I eat something off plan, I tend to scribble it down almost illegibly so.  Ha!  Like I think “someone” can’t figure it out.  Uh…someone is ME.

I live with a junk food junkie.  That’s not an excuse, that is a fact.  I love Precision Nutrition.  They clearly say “If there is junk food in the house you will eat it…eventually”. I’m good about steering clear of it.  In fact 98% of the time I do.

The only drawback to any plan saying “get rid of all the bad stuff in your house”, well that is just not possible in every house.  My spousal unit ate the same way he eats now when we married.  I changed, that isn’t his fault.  He’s not overweight or unhealthy.  I’m jealous because I have the metabolism of a person who gained 168# in two years and proceeded to lose 125# of it in a year.  I don’t care what anyone says, that jacks up your system.  No excuse.

So is the 2% margin of error enough to screw up my goals?

Perhaps.

The question is not that, the question is whether the journal is helping me to stay the course.

Without a doubt.

It helps me to recognize and realize that I’m much more comfortable and relaxed when I do food prep.  THAT makes me feel more successful in and of itself.

WRITE IT DOWN.  You’ll learn a lot in the process.

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24
Jun
13

More Morphing of a Fit Woman

As I read through a few friends blogs this weekend I realized that I could be doing some things a tad bit or even a whole LOT better.

In example over at 43 Fitness she whips out her workout log and shows all of her readers the key points and highlights that she relies on that notebook to remind her of.  I love it.

I have several workout books/logs, but over the past 6 months or so I’ve gotten out of the habit of doing it daily and that has got to change.   It doesn’t matter what the reason is behind not keeping up with it, all that matters is that needs to change.  Today.

Keeping a journal of both food and workouts is the ONLY way a coach or trainer or faithful friends can help you figure out why you’ve hit a plateau or whether you are making excuses.  Accountability.

I am weak.  I need accountability.  I admit it. 

Underneath it all I am as normal as they come.  I want to cheat on my food and so long as no one saw me eat that extra handful of nuts, it doesn’t matter right?  Uh huh.

Oh last week I cleaned 95# 15 times but this week I’m just too tired to clean 85# 10 times.  Uh huh.

As long as it is not written down, it doesn’t matter, right?  Uh huh.

See the pattern?

While watching the video 43 Fitness did, I remembered a time way back when.  Yes, a long time ago.  I was keeping my very first food journal.   I remember making it through the first week with everything nice and tidy.   During the second week things started to change.  One day I ate 4 chocolate covered Oreo cookies.  In my mind they are a whole lot better than they are in my mouth these days.  Now they just taste overly processed.   I digress…

The day I sat with that food journal getting ready to write down those cookies, all sorts of feelings cascaded through my mind.  Shame and guilt were in the front row.  Followed by honesty.  Honesty said “write it down and be uncomfortable with it”.  Shame and guilt applauded the uncomfortable part.

That was the turning point for me with keeping a food journal.  Most of the time I no longer need it.  Seriously, most of the time I’m spot on with both meal planning and portions.  When it is time to set a new goal, it is time to journal.

In reality, I do believe that is just what my fitness goals need to come to fruition.

A journal should be filled with all of the important details of your workouts and your nutrition.  If you lift you want to keep up with the lifting progressions.  Try new things that challenge your body.  Sometimes they don’t work out for you.  If you journal it, you won’t likely make the same mistake twice.

When keeping a food journal, you must have integrity.  I promise you, strong character is built when no one else is watching.  Because the only person you are cheating is yourself.

WRITE IT DOWN.  You may be surprised at patterns that develop.  Patterns that can help you understand whether you sabotage yourself.   Patterns that help you understand if you are a stress eater.   WRITE IT DOWN.  Over time you’ll get stronger because you won’t eat it because you don’t want to WRITE IT DOWN.

I talked to the spousal unit last night and told him it was time for more serious goal setting and record keeping.  He is the best “are you SURE you want to eat that” person on the planet.  Especially when he knows I have a goal set.

As with most everything, I intend to share the new journal process with you all.  Hopefully I can start making a few videos along the way.

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21
Jun
13

Be A Fighter

I read a lot of blogs, a lot of FaceBook posts, and a lot of email asking questions and for help in making lasting change.   I’m honored and humbled by every email I receive because I’m just an ordinary person who has become a fighter.

What does that mean exactly?  It means I have committed to myself everyday to fight for the fitness I want.  It means I refuse to settle for status quo. It means even when I’m not spot on, I press on consistently.  Getting knocked down and getting back up again to go at it another day.  Preventing the decline, slowly creating a fit body and mind for myself.

I don’t have all of the answers, even for myself, but I work hard to educate myself on topics that will assist in my efforts to take things on to the next chapter in my journey.

Often we encounter set-backs, at times it is even possible to be indirectly set-back by another person’s decision.  What do you do?  Become a fighter.  Stay the course, keep training, keep doing what you can with what you have.  Stay true to you.

A little music motivation courtesy of Gym Class Hero’s.

 

17
Jun
13

My Thoughts On Being Strong

My last blog was letting all my blogging friends know I was competing in a strongman competition as a way to honor my father-in-law who is currently battling cancer.

It’s taken me a full week to get my thoughts together and to make a picture video of the event.

Things I learned while competing.  First, I’m stronger than I think I am.  Second, I have some of the best people on this planet in my cheering section.  Third, fear is much bigger in my head than after taking the first step in a competition.

This event has been the highlight over the past month.  I watched friends PR (get a personal record) all day long.  We all got dirty together, we sweat together, encouraged each other and we encouraged total strangers through tough workouts.

If I’m not mistaken, the next closest competitor in my age group was 14 years younger than me, and on average most were 20-25 years younger.  Yes, I questioned my own sanity a time or two for coming out and competing with kids, but it’s not about beating them, it’s about being a better me than I was yesterday.  As you will see by the pictures, I carried heavy things, flipped tires, pulled a sled 50 meters and got a personal record of 240# on my dead-lift.

The best thing I did that day was set an example for a group of young women who now see that aging doesn’t mean you have to stop doing things that challenge you.  Being smart about my fitness, keeping myself healthy and injury free allows me to compete in this environment.

What a great day.

On the mornings I head out to Garagegym107 to row, I see the before pictures hanging on the wall and remember where I was and that I am unwilling to go back there.  It can be done, it is being done. Day in and day out, me vs. me.  I live by the mindset, there is no finish line.

Pictures courtesy of CrossFit Madison

Video: A special thanks to Jason Thompson

Song: The Script-Hall of Fame

31
May
13

Show Me Your Brave

Today’s blog is a bit deep, but hear me out.

My last blog was about stepping up in the face of challenge and adversity.  I blogged about an overwhelming workload etc., however, what I didn’t share with my blogging friends is that my father-in-law over the last 4 weeks has begun a full on war with stage IV cancer.

I don’t share an overwhelming amount of personal information because I don’t want to distract my readers with personal noise.

About 3 months ago, I registered for Beast of the Valley Strongman competition.  Over the past 3 weeks I’ve come up with about 20 excuses to bail out.

Yesterday, while watching my father-in-law struggle to consume an 8 oz nutritional drink I had a complete mindset change.

Tomorrow I will do this competition for him, in honor of his battle, my internal battle will be fought for him.  No excuses, just results.  To all of my super supportive friends, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your love and support.   To the athletes of  CrossFit Madison THANK YOU for bringing me joy each morning that I am allowed to coach you through your workouts.

Tomorrow it will be about having the courage to fight this fight along with him.

You see 6 weeks ago, my father-in-law was an avid tennis player at 79 years young and today, 6 short weeks later he has mentally decided to show us his brave.   This could happen to ANY of us.  Don’t take a single day for granted.  Get up and do everything YOU can do to take care of your body and soul because you can.

Thank you to Lifting My Spirits for introducing me to this song.

To all of the strong and beautiful women I know who are competing from all over town tomorrow, I’m so proud to be a part of this community no matter where our home bases are, we are a family built on strong values of supporting one another.

01
Apr
13

In Pursuit of Dreams

As I mentioned in my previous blog I am in the middle of the CrossFit Open Sectionals competition.  It’s a very exciting time for me and the athletes of our CrossFit box.  I’ve watched people evolve over the course of this past month, achieving things one month ago, they had no idea they could really accomplish.  Both strong and beautiful inside out, I am honored to have their permission to present them to you.

These three women have inspired me beyond measure, right along with their own friends and family members.

Thanks to CrossFit Madison for the photos.

Anna Lombard:  Anna decided her first go around at the WOD wasn’t her best.  She came back in on Saturday and showed everyone, including herself exactly what she is capable of.

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Artesha Bishop:  Artesha also decide her first go around at the WOD wasn’t her best.  She came back in on Saturday and found she was capable of more.  Not settling for less than her absolute best, she gave is one final go and exceeded her own expectations.

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Sydney Blackmon:  I have watched this young lady absolutely blossom through her CrossFit experiences.  On Saturday she successfully cleaned & jerked the prescribed load of 95# multiple times.  Big deal right?  Well that 95# is 5# less than her own body weight.  The most exciting part is that she is 17 years old.

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21
Feb
13

Have I Been A Slacker?

I realized when I sat down to write this blog I’ve begun to allow too much time to pass between blogs.  I’ve got way too much to talk about to not sit down and make it happen.

Anyway, one might wonder if I’ve been slacking.  Fat chance on that.  I work a full-time professional day job and then I step out with my favorite evening job, personal training.

I long to find a way to support myself with my first love.  Eventually I’ll get there, just not while I have a kid in college.

So, enough of my ramblings.  Have I mentioned lately how much I adore working out?  I really do.  Most people cringe at getting up at 4:30am to be at the gym around 5.  Not me.  I started my days off like that long before I ever allowed the fat chick to rule my world.

Back in those days I wasn’t over weight, really not even pleasantly plump.  After the birth of my 3rd son, I decided that working out at 5:00am allowed me to work out guilt free.  Everyone was still sleeping and I didn’t feel like I was taking away from the older boys baseball, etc.

Fast forward through the trauma of divorce and massive unhealthy weight gain, through the amazing and a times heartbreaking journey of weight loss and the release of  emotional baggage I find myself now older, wiser and still loving the 5:00am workouts.

The key in all of that chatter is find what works for you and your family.  It may not be the ideal time, but if this is really important to you, you’ll do it whenever you can make it happen.

I’ve discovered lately that having a fit mind is just as important, perhaps even more important than a fit body.

Someone in your life causing drama?  That doesn’t make it your drama.   Someone having a bad day?  That doesn’t make it your bad day.  Your friend decided to make an excuse not to go to the gym this morning?  That’s not your excuse.

My message and one of my own personal favorite lessons has always been “Just because someone else is having an issue, that doesn’t make it my issue”.  I’ve learned over the last 20 years that if you take it, someone will keep giving it to you to carry for them.

Put on mental rubber suit and let the excuses of others roll off like rain on a freshly waxed car.  Take care of yourself and six months from now your drama filled, excuse making friend will be asking YOU how you did it!

You’ve got enough to handle keeping yourself fit and fabulous.

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05
Feb
13

Be Beautiful

For ALL of the beautiful ladies in my life, I write this blog.  You know who you are, you are near and far.  The ones who, at the drop of a hat send a kind word or do a kind deed.  You are the ones that simply place a heart on my FB page.  You are the ones who send a card for no other reason than you want to make someone smile.

With all of the noise surrounding the perfection of  women, be it in the fitness industry, the beauty industry, the clothing industry, remember that we are each in our own way simply beautiful.

Imagine a world with no commercials or billboards bombarding you with thoughts of what you should be, how you should look, or telling you what material thing you should have before you consider yourself beautiful.

Get up tomorrow and let it all fade to black.  Find the beauty you were born with, IT IS IN YOU, I know, I’ve seen it with my own eyes and felt it with my own heart.   Be the beautiful women that you are!

Please take 3 minutes and 20 seconds and watch this video.   A huge shout out to Karen Walrond for posting this on You Tube.  And a huge thanks to my Precision Nutrition coach Jennifer Koslo for sharing this.

Please, please, share this with every beautiful woman that you know!

Beautiful

19
Jan
13

Taking Those First Steps

In fitness no matter where you are, taking those first steps always seem to be the most difficult.  Most people know that I am not new to fitness and they know that I will change things when I’m not seeing progress.

Taking those first few steps, whether just beginning the journey to get fit, or taking stats years down the road and not liking the results of them.  Either way, taking those steps can be difficult.

This morning was my first measurements and progress picture posting day for the Precision Nutrition Lean Eating program I’m following.  Even after all this time and all of these pictures, those steps are still very difficult for me. 

Reasons:

1) I’m older and will never again have the body of a 20-year-old (I don’t care how much money I were to throw at it, my 20-year-old body is gone) so I must find peace with what I’m working with.

2) In my mind, I always see myself in a better place than I am in reality.

3) Changes always, always create insecurity for me.  What if I’m not good at it? What if it isn’t the answer?  Blah, Blah, Blah…

Negative self talk happens to the best of us, those are the moments when we are terrified but we know we must take the risk to improve. 

I’ve stayed pretty close to the same weight and definitely stayed the same over-all size for several years now and it’s time for me to move along done my path to my next goal.  No more excuses, just actions that speak louder than words.  Another journey has begun by taking the first step.

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