I talk to a lot of women. Both young and a little further along in their young. Women who are fit and some who are just starting their journey. The most common thread I find that intertwines all of us are body image issues. Seriously, I have some BEAUTIFUL friends that allow themselves to see only their own perceived flaws.
Having traveled the journey I’ve traveled I have a whole bunch of stuff that I could go on about. Sure, some of them I’m darned tempted to surgically change, I mean really. You don’t go from 328 down to 165 without a thing or two hanging around. But that’s not what I’m talking about today.
Today I want to talk about embracing your body for the things you don’t see…yet.
Over the past 12 years there have been numerous things I’ve wanted to change about my body. I’ve worked really hard to change them. Some have changed, some have not. Ironically, the one thing I wanted to change the most still hasn’t really changed much at all.
I have a friend who suggested that instead of constantly focusing on what I want to change, that perhaps I should focus on what is good about my body instead.
Great things happened over the course of the following months. Each day I would write down 5 things that I appreciated about my body with the one rule that I couldn’t repeat the same thing.
For example I have very wide clavicles. I had someone say to me “I’d love to have your clavicles”. Hmm who knew.
This exercise taught me to love things I’d never even paid any attention to and to not be so very critical of my own flaws. You can bet there is someone out there right now that wishes they could be where you are today.
So start that little exercise today. Write down 5 things you truly appreciate about your body. If you can’t think of 5 try harder. The way you look isn’t all that matters.
On a completely different topic, here is my friend Caroline rockin’ the GG107 sweat shirt. She lives in Washington state and reads my blog and talks to me on FB and lets me send her son cotton fresh from the fields of Alabama. Thank you Caroline!
